A lot of people constantly ask me to “ have another baby” or ask “ when is baby #2 coming?”
What I have to say to them is I don’t know.
I’m 21, I have a whole list of things I want to accomplish, I had a baby young. I was going through a lot at the time of my pregnancy and I don’t know if my birth experience truly makes me want to have another baby.
The problem with babies (WELL, kids in general) is it takes a few minutes of passion to make them and then you have to “create” them essentially in womb for approx 9 months. Kids are expensive.
Do NOT get me wrong, I LOVE my daughter to death but do I want another one? No. If my hubs can carry the next one then fine. The problem is while pregnant I didn’t feel “ sexy “ or “ my best “ I felt the absolute opposite. I loved watching baby girl grow in me from 6 weeks all the way up until 35 weeks but I love her a LOT more outside the womb.
So for all the people who continuously ask me if I want another baby, I don’t.
May I think about it in a few years? Yes absolutely but for now I will gladly continue to run to my birth control every single day to make sure I take it properly.
No more babies for me anytime soon.
Sorry not sorry ?
with lots of love & positivity,